Swing Baby
We’d driven until the road would go no more and all we could see was the sand and the Pacific Ocean. He’d shared about his hope for his last relationship and how it would have created space for multiple partners, yet even though his ex was bisexual and he considers himself queer, they ended up defaulting to the monogamous norm.
Sex Marathon
“I’ve never had this much consistent sex in my life,” the words passed through Mr. Wilderness’ lips as he smiled. We lay in bed naked, still breathing heavily after the countless time of pleasuring each other.
Art of Sext
It has been a hot second since I’ve taken time to share about Hugh. Dear reader please do not for one second think it’s because things have faded. My Montréal based beau is very much alive and well, living his best polyamorous life. In fact his other lover will be joining him this very weekend for a night out at one of the many sex club experiences the city has to offer. Am I jealous?
Truths Don’t Have to Hurt
To be truly honest means I must participate in the destigmatizing of shame around the subject of childhood molestation.
Third Date
His boldness to pick up and meet me for a journey such as this was a huge turn on and the trip could not have been more perfect. Mr. Wilderness had me swooning in ways I’m not used to.
Lovers For Days
It’s been a while since I’ve taken a proper lover, could this sexy man from the East Coast be it?
Unexpected Encounter
We were both breathless, he had me screaming so loudly his travel partner came in, concerned the neighbors were going to complain…
Longer Distance
Eyelids gently closed, half awake, half asleep; the thoughts of the last week flooded my being with prickles of pleasure. There is no space, there’s no time, just touch.
First Date
The door opened and as he turned towards me our eyes locked; lust at first sight.
Actions But Also Words
"Cigarettes and monogamy are deal breakers," my long nails clicked as I typed this into the description field of my dating profile. Still uncomfortable with labels, this at least felt more authentic and genuine to who I am and the type of relationship I am seeking.
And Then There Were Two
Why does everyone who isn’t “hetero“ or “monogamous“ have to “come-out“ as themselves? We can often get so caught up in the labeling that we lose sight of who the person is and what they stand for, instead focusing on who they fuck and their lifestyle choices.
Lovers
Why is there an expectation that a life partner should be able to tick all of our boxes? Or why are we expected to compromise when we could have it all, just not from one person? Is the the sacrifice of our own needs and desires supposed to be the foundation of longterm partnership? I don’t believe so.
The One & Done
I am an addict, he was my fix. The ongoing sexting for hours and days on end; playing out endless fantasies, sexual and other, only to let the chips fall where they may.
Lucky No. 3
I’ve said before that my attraction to both men and women can leave me wanting more; so that Friday night in the East Village, three days before our official dinner date, I rolled the dice and I played to win.
ACME. 3:30 AM. Need I say more?
Bi-Bi-Bi
She stood tall at 5’ 8” with hair so dark it was almost black and it fell just below her slender shoulders. She was dynamic, fiery and wild. We spent many nights causing trouble in Manhattan; dancing, drinking champagne, and mercilessly teasing the men who watched us kiss, but we always left together.
In Conversation: Elizabeth Waterman Part 2
It’s fun that we have movies like Hustler and that we have celebs like Cardi B and Amber Rose and that is all great because it creates awareness and celebration of strippers, but you have to remember to give credit where credit is due.
In Conversation: Elizabeth Waterman Part 1
Here is what makes a really good stripper. When you are sitting and watching a stripper on stage doing her show and you’re 20 or 50 feet away, and just from watching them you feel like you’re having sex with them.
Longterm Lover
“Damn,” I couldn’t help but think, “This man is hot, intelligent, with next level style… Yes please.”
